Remain calm in extreme life situations

Mother’s Message: Fearlessness in the vital

Naran

The vital is highly disturbed having nothing but fear.

In extreme difficult situations, one becomes panicky and terror-stricken losing patience, running helter – shelter and becomes mentally and physically inert.

Small lavender blue cup-shaped BRINJAL FLOWER (Solanum melongena) helps us to remain calm and composed in any extreme situations. It balances the vital, and normalizes the Hara chakra.

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Put a stop to your angry reactions

When someone is angry or doing something against us either we get angry or become upset, because it is very difficult for us to detach from what is happening outside.  Therefore, we also participate by being emotional becoming Non-Divine.

How to help yourself in detaching from all that is not Divine?

Sri Aurobindo

Bring in Mother’s force to eliminate (your reaction).

Naran

There is a flower “IPOMEA CAIRICA”, which is light rose purple in colour….identified by The Divine Mother for detachment from all that is not divine.

Meditate on the flower praying, “Let Divine Love, Divine Life possess me, conquer me and keep me in lasting eternal immortal light”.

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Saviors of the World

Rock Rose

It is the remedy for courage. One thousand people may be in the beach. Somebody is washed away.

At that time, don’t blame the parents if they can’t save their child’s life. Only one will try to save the person. He is the positive Rock Rose person.

He will think, “Here it’s not my life in danger. I have to save somebody’s life”. There his soul wakes up and his mind is dead. He doesn’t need to know swimming. Yet, he will be able to save the child.

The Car jockey slipped and the husband of a lady was caught in the wheel. She lifted the car and saved him. To save her husband she had done it. Next day, the same thing cannot be done by her.

The Soul’s switch is in the mind. However, mind should be off for the Soul’s switch to be on. Each of 39 Bach Flower Remedies switches our minds OFF and Makes our Soul’s Switch ON.

Will do anything to manipulate others

Never pray for more than you want

A person in the “Introduction to Bach Flower Remedy” class complained that her son loves her too much. He has taken leave for a week and showering all his love for her. She wanted his love to be curtailed.

Naran

I warned her in the Reiki class, when you write an affirmation and give Reiki to it, it will happen and you need to be ready for the consequences. That is, we should ask for what we need and not what we want.

Take “CHICORY”.

Why Chicory? Chicory person will eat less in the hotel because he is spending money for it. He or she will spend less and therefore, they also take less.

Energy of thanks

Grace

Is there a flower that opens one up the energy of thanks or gratitude in general?

Naran

Chicory

A send-off speech well-received

R Mohan

Sometime back, when I was asked to give a send-off speech for one of our overseas consultants, you asked me to take Chicory and give the speech. Please explain the connection.

Naran

Chicory will not appreciate in full. He will give it in installments. Even the salary that he has to pay his employees, he will not pay on time. He will give it bit by bit.

For example, a politician will not complement his associates in total. He will keep them in check by offering complements little by little.

Will manipulate others

HEATHER person will approach a person and will get rejected, for he will be always be talking about his problems.

A Chicory person on the other hand, will manipulate to receive love. However, she will never be satisfied as she is like a pot with a hole.

Of course, to receive love she will do anything. In that process, she will become HEATHER, rejected by the opposite person.

Do anything to get love

Will lie, to get love and become a CHESTNUT BUD.

And give love to receive love. So, she can become a CENTAURY too.

A Chicory person will constantly interfere with others. He has to give them input on continuous basis. He will not let go the other person unless his work done. So he will invite IMPATIENS people, who will not be able to tolerate a Chicory person.

A Chicory person is a possessive person. Eventually this will make her suspicious and thus she will become a HOLLY person.

The only person, who will get all the attention, during a funeral, is the person who is dead. “If I had to die to get all the attention in the world, then I am ready to die”, said an English statesman.

Chicory is such a person.

From Meditation on Bach Flowers CD:

Chicory characteristics are an ocean. Nobody can understand its true nature. So we can go on talking about it. So our prayer to Chicory is longer than others too…

“Chicory, you symbolize mother’s love. You represent unconditional love. Let me love selflessly. Let me have true concern for others.

Whenever I am filled up with self-pity, Chicory, remind me, guide me that I am loved and approved by all

Whenever I feel hurt or rejected, remind me that I am loved by god. Whenever, I get angry at the ingratitude of others, remind me Chicory to forget and forgive.

Release my ego-centric needs. Release my possessive nature. Release my self-love.

There is a thirst for love which no human relations can quench. It is only the divine love that can satisfy that thirst. Let this message of yours Chicory, be the guiding force of my life.”

Steady progress in life

The Mother’s Flower Guava

• To have a balanced mind
• To take a decision and stick to it
• For steady growth, like in the office, when you are trying for a promotion, and you don’t want to have any regression – take the flower to the office for a steady growth in office
• When you want your hired driver to drive steadily, during a long trip, give the picture of Guava to the driver
• For steady progress

When there is a negotiation or agreement between you and the builder. He might agree for several things initially, but he may go back on his words, when he executes the agreement.

Whenever you enter into any type of agreement have this picture. The opposite person will be reliable.

To know whether some person is reliable or not, dependable or not, have this picture.

The Universal Lover

The Bach Flower Remedy Holly

Key Words

Hatred, envy, suspicious, doubt, revengeful attitude, no humour

Message from Holly

“I love”

Indications

• Anger , Rage
• Fears of being deceived
• Frequently feel offended or hurt
• You are easily annoyed or you get angry at everything and everybody
• Have you ever felt pain when you heard about some one’s luck or happiness?
• Was there any occasion you become violent and overheated?
• Sibling rivalry
• Will do harm to others
• The control negative feature of this flower is suspicion.  Holly is specific in paranoid personality disorder.  The person thinks that others are there to deceive him or play tricks on him.
• He doubts the loyalty of others
• He doesn’t make friends easily
• He has no sense of humor
• He is irritated because of suspicion
• He considers everybody as his enemy
• He has jealousy with anger and insults others
• He feels others are happy
• He gets easily offended by jokes
• Holly people live in a constant state of restless irritation, get angry easily and lose control of them
• Even a fly on the wall will anger them in situations of extreme tension

Some of the statements from a Holly person are…

• Others always misunderstand me
• I feel angry at everybody including myself
• I easily fly into a rage
• Sometimes, I am so tense that even a small thing makes me mad
• I often get angry at myself, especially when someone has persuaded me to do something I actually do not want to do
• I often have uncontrollable temper tantrums
• I am constantly unsatisfied and suffer for no reason
• My friends say I am hot-tempered
• Sometimes, I am very unfriendly, although the other person has given me no reason to be
• I often wake up at night to my own voice and hear myself complaining out aloud
• I am resentful
• I am very suspicious
• It is very difficult for me to forgive myself or others
• I feel very jealous when my husband goes to a seminar and therefore, he has to call home every hour.
• I often envy other women who are prettier than I am
• My temper has become violent (Holly has no feelings of compassion)
• I hate……… who has such a happy life
• I am bad-tempered, discontented and frustrated, I don’t know why? Now I have come to a stage where I can’t trust anybody.

Usage

• HOLLY protects us from everything that is not universal love. It opens our heart and unites us with divine love.
• The flower remedy HOLLY helps against anger, hate, envy, jealousy, suspicion and revengefulness
• Cut off from others – HOLLY + HEATHER
• I always have a feeling of being deceived (deceit). I always suspect that there is something negative in what people say: HOLLY + CRAB APPLE
• I feel offended or hurt easily.
• When I hear of somebody’s luck or happiness or growth, a flash of envy or jealousy comes in the heart: HOLLY + CHICORY
• As a result of their temperament, Holly people suffer acute and violent illness for example, sudden high fever, inflammation burning or itching, skin rashes, allergies.  In these cases HOLLY can be considered.
• Sudden shooting of temperature or BP: HOLLY + CHERRY PLUM

HOLLY	I have become jealous of others
HOLLY	I start feeling that people have “ulterior motives” I start suspecting them
MIMULUS, HOLLY	The child is often irritable, aggressive

 

Fear None

The Bach Flower Remedy Aspen

Key words

Fear of unknown origin, vague fears, all types of premonitions and superstitions

Indications

• Fears of impending danger
• Cannot differentiate between fantasy and reality
• Fear of invisible, night mares, afraid of dark
• Aspen imagination runs amuck
• Aspen persons have nervous superstitious fears of occult concepts.  Belief in a fear of supernatural fears such as ghosts and unkind spirits.
• Fear of approaching doom
• Aspen fears are with anxiety attacks with terrible sweating
• Fear of open places, dark, deep water

Usage

• All superstitions: ASPEN + PINE
• Fear of open places, dark deep water: ASPEN + MIMULUS + WALNUT + STAR OF BETHLEHEM
• The child has nightmares: ASPEN, WHITE CHESTNUT

Some of the statements from an Aspen person are…

• I have superstitious fears and fears of premonition
• I have feelings of apprehension uneasiness – but the cause is not known
• I fear something bad will happen but I am not sure what it is.

Open up to Abundant Love, Life

Mother says on Balsam Flower: “Generosity in the Physical…Likes abundance and gives abundantly.”

Receive by Giving

Means generosity…What is generosity? It means giving without bargaining. Where can we use it? In selling your property or buying a property…

A person is generous means he is acting from the heart centre.  He minds about only giving. He doesn’t think about receiving.

If we need that kind of generosity in our heart, we can project the Balsam flower in our heart centre.

Managing mean-minded people, who wants to cheat you

If any person is mean-minded and not giving your money…

One might have taken your money and he is dodging to give it back to you. He might be avoiding you or evading you. Paste the picture on him (write his name on a paper and paste), and meditate on the flower.

Between brothers and sisters there is always a dispute whether to give the equal share to all-concerned. Then you could use this flower.

Getting donations

For voluntary agencies, to collect donations from people, they can have this picture or they could put the picture of Balsam in their letter-head.

If you suggest to them, they might ask you to do it for them. For that we need to be generous.

If you visualize Balsam flower in your heart centre (chakra), you will attract people who are generous and who are not bargaining.

Making people fair to you

If anybody is unfair, aggressive, ill-tempered or spiteful, paste this picture on the name of the person or visualize the flower in their heart centre. Also, you can project the flowers on others, the moment you think about the flowers, they appear, as they represent divine in this world.

Only Red Balsam has got the above-mentioned properties.

Opening of heart and throat chakras

This Balsam flower opens the heart centre to a very great extent.

Is it alright to keep on give without receiving anything, as at someday I might become pauper? That question will come only from the solar plexus centre, which is below the heart centre. When the throat is closed, even when the heart is open, that question or doubt will arise in us.

When the throat chakra opens up, one will start believe in abundance in receiving. It talks only gods-ways.

Surrendering (to divinity) comes to us, when the throat chakra is opened. If you are not worried about receiving, it happens.

So don’t believe even if a clairvoyant says your throat chakra is open fully. Ask the question, “Do I have the surrendering attitude to divinity? Do I believe in giving without receiving?” If the answer is “yes”, it means that the heart and throat are opened. Otherwise, they are not opened.

Our hearts are closed when…

• In the previous lifetime, you would have suffered a bad love life, and therefore, you have closed your heart to others in this lifetime
• Might have had a bad childhood
• Had experienced a traumatic relationship
• You may remain single
• You may be childless

When your heart is closed…

How to open up your heart?

Meditate on Balsam flower, look at the picture of Balsam flower or chant Balsam. You can also do a prayer to Balsam.

Get married by praying to Balsam

“O Balsam Flower! Please open my heart centre, which might have been closed due to unfavorable events and emotions either in the past life or in the present life.  Open my heart. Prepare me to connect to the person, who is meant to be with me in this life forever”.

The unmarried or a divorcee can say this prayer to Balsam, by keeping the picture on the heart.

Student of Life

The Bach Flower Remedy Chestnut Bud

Key words

Lack of observation, negligence, escapism, slow-learning, repeats the same mistakes, physically present but mentally absent.

Indications

• Chestnut Bud child forgets to take the books.  Teacher always warns them, “Think before you speak.”
• Thoughts races ahead
• Have you ever experienced same problem happening again and again?
• Arguments with same persons
• Not paying enough attention during conversations and planning my next question while the other speaks. “Will you please repeat the question? I didn’t follow you.”  A typical statement from a Chestnut Bud person.
• Were you careless at any time?
• Not enjoying learning

Some of the statements from a Chestnut Bud person are…

• I am becoming negligent and careless and forgetful
• I make silly mistakes
• I read well but have difficulty in understanding the lessons
• I am writing wrong answers and making silly mistakes
• Usually I forget to take a notebook or a book to school
• I prefer to start new chapter without finishing the previous chapter
• I don’t understand my subjects
• I am good at all the subjects except math and science
• I make an effort to listen but my mind gets distracted
• I am repeating the same mistake again and again
• It is difficult for me to concentrate
• I am reading the book automatically and routinely.
• I want to escape from my worries
• I welcome Cold because I don’t have to go to work
• I never seem to learn from my experiences
• While talking to the doctor the patient stops for some time and continues.
• “Please repeat what you have asked?  I am sorry. My mind was away while listening to you.”
• He himself admits, “Yes, while talking to you I stayed away to another subject of no importance.  It normally happens.  After sometime I realize and question myself as to what I was doing.”  This is my mental state.

Usage

• When there is a development delay, Lack of resolve, Lack of reasoning and reflecting power, Carelessness, Mental or behavioral disorders, Attention deficit disorders, Disruptive behaviour disorders, Anti-social personality disorders, Easy distraction of mind, Inability to learn from past mistakes, For moral strength of character, Loss of memory, Repeating the mistake again and again, Escaping for a personal gain, Avoiding persons, problems, and dodging
• Physically abandoning from the place because he couldn’t manage the situation
• For slow learners, dyslexia, and escapism
• When you have a doubt that servant stole something.
• When someone tells lies, give Chestnut Bud, he will tell the truth.
• When someone disappears after borrowing money from you send Chestnut Bud through distance.
• For any type of learning and for deeper understanding of any subject take Chestnut Bud. It is a student’s remedy.
• Helps you to take the next correct steps after repeated failures
• For disobedient child, making careless and silly mistakes, while learning to drive
• He is negligent
• Every day in the morning while starting for the school, he will come out with a physical complaint (headache, stomach ache, diarrhea…)
• He comes out with lay excuse (lying) every time when I call him for studies
• He comes out with different types of excuses, each time, when he fails
• He is easily distracted when reading
• Teacher calls him “idiot”
• He has lack of observation. In spite of studying hard, he gets poor marks

Combination Remedies

• CHESTNUT BUD + SCLERANTHUS – for people to work honestly and punctually
• ELM + GORSE + ROCK WATER for recovering stolen articles.  As per the emotional states, remedy to be added. CHESTNUT BUD to be sent through distance.
• CHESTNUT BUD + MIMULUS: The child suffers from various frequent illness – like diarrhea, fever cold, stomach aches, headache
• CLEMATIS, CHESTNUT BUD: He has lack of attention in studies – he is careless
• MIMULUS, CHESTNUT BUD: Is prone to minor ailments during term exams
• MIMULUS, CHESTNUT BUD and CHICORY: cries a lot when starting for the school
• ELM, CHESTNUT BUD: The child is made miserable by one or more school subjects
• CERATO, CHESTNUT BUD: He gives evasive answers to questions asked by elders

The Peacemaker

The Bach Flower Remedy Agrimony

Key words

I want peace of mind; mental torture, worry, concealed from others

Message

• You will get a true friend, if you are true to yourself

Indications

• Cheerful, jovial and humorous in the company but depressed when alone
• By all means, avoids being alone. Adopts peace to be in company of people. Though under tension within.
• Doesn’t like to argue and thus he will avoid an argument and so gives up his viewpoint easily
• Desires harmony and peace
• Hides his worries from others. Will do anything to hide them. So his true feelings are unknown to others.
• Grieves over little things they failed to do, for e.g., as simple as forgetting to call back or post a letter or unsuccessful sexual encounter
• Have big desires but acts as though he has very little desires
• Agrimony is dual in existence – on one side makes attempts to pretend, while on the other side masking his unpleasant side. Good outside, but bad inside, where the bad side may not be known to others.
• Does anything to hide worry – smoking, drinking etc
• Likes to be in the company of others
• Thinks one way, but feels other way
• Likes – live peacefully, please all the people, do a great deal
• Escapes into: Movies, parties or actions of any kind
• Ignore the flaws of partner
• Dislikes:  any dispute or discord
• Agrimony’s avoidance is a type of control over his emotions. More and more a person controls finally he will lose control or he will always have a fear of losing control.

Some of the expressions which point to Agrimony are:

• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or problems  from others putting up a smiling face
• I silently bear my sufferings
• To forget my problems, I work overtime
• My friends think that I am social and extrovert.  But I only know my problems.
• When alone in the night, I start worrying. During day time I forget.
• I like to be always in company
• During grief, I cry in my room, but I smile outside
• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or I silently bear my sufferings

Usage

• It can be given to all those who masturbate
• People around you will become true friends
• You will be able to discuss everything including your problems, openly with others
• You won’t pretend neither will you mask your feelings
• Agrimony can be very helpful in true communication – Beech + Agrimony
• Teenagers –conflicting thoughts and emotions – Agrimony will be helpful to resolve them.
• For children who could not express the intimidation they experience in school.
• For people who lie – along with chestnut bud
• Agrimony for any physically sensitive pain as suppressed emotional pains are expressed as physical pains
• Pulling hair, biting nails, grinding teeth, skin rashes – Internal restlessness
• To keep peace, to avoid conflict, hide inner worry, restlessness
• Be a peacemaker
• Positive traits that are developed by Agrimony:  genuine inner joy, true harmony and inner peace
• To be a skillful diplomat a talented peacemaker, true optimist.
• Agrimony + Chestnut bud: a person may avoid a situation or may avoid another person for fear of confrontation. Confrontation will disturb him. Any disturbance in the peace will make him avoid a situation or escape from the situation. Chestnut Bud – will avoid a person or a situation.
• Straight away prescribe in mediation and negotiations – Agrimony + Beech + Chestnut bud
• For any Skin problem: Agrimony + Crab Apple
• For Blood Pressure: Agrimony + Willow + Cherry plum                            –
• Paralysis: Escapism and avoidance are the two remedies have these key words. Paralysis – too much of Anger. Agrimony will have anger inside or sadness inside but smile outside: Agrimony + Willow + Chestnut bud + Cherry plum.
• By nature I always avoid quarrels, arguments, confrontation: AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER
• I don’t argue because speaking up will only make things worse: AGRIMONY, WATER VIOLET