The Peacemaker

The Bach Flower Remedy Agrimony

Key words

I want peace of mind; mental torture, worry, concealed from others

Message

• You will get a true friend, if you are true to yourself

Indications

• Cheerful, jovial and humorous in the company but depressed when alone
• By all means, avoids being alone. Adopts peace to be in company of people. Though under tension within.
• Doesn’t like to argue and thus he will avoid an argument and so gives up his viewpoint easily
• Desires harmony and peace
• Hides his worries from others. Will do anything to hide them. So his true feelings are unknown to others.
• Grieves over little things they failed to do, for e.g., as simple as forgetting to call back or post a letter or unsuccessful sexual encounter
• Have big desires but acts as though he has very little desires
• Agrimony is dual in existence – on one side makes attempts to pretend, while on the other side masking his unpleasant side. Good outside, but bad inside, where the bad side may not be known to others.
• Does anything to hide worry – smoking, drinking etc
• Likes to be in the company of others
• Thinks one way, but feels other way
• Likes – live peacefully, please all the people, do a great deal
• Escapes into: Movies, parties or actions of any kind
• Ignore the flaws of partner
• Dislikes:  any dispute or discord
• Agrimony’s avoidance is a type of control over his emotions. More and more a person controls finally he will lose control or he will always have a fear of losing control.

Some of the expressions which point to Agrimony are:

• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or problems  from others putting up a smiling face
• I silently bear my sufferings
• To forget my problems, I work overtime
• My friends think that I am social and extrovert.  But I only know my problems.
• When alone in the night, I start worrying. During day time I forget.
• I like to be always in company
• During grief, I cry in my room, but I smile outside
• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or I silently bear my sufferings

Usage

• It can be given to all those who masturbate
• People around you will become true friends
• You will be able to discuss everything including your problems, openly with others
• You won’t pretend neither will you mask your feelings
• Agrimony can be very helpful in true communication – Beech + Agrimony
• Teenagers –conflicting thoughts and emotions – Agrimony will be helpful to resolve them.
• For children who could not express the intimidation they experience in school.
• For people who lie – along with chestnut bud
• Agrimony for any physically sensitive pain as suppressed emotional pains are expressed as physical pains
• Pulling hair, biting nails, grinding teeth, skin rashes – Internal restlessness
• To keep peace, to avoid conflict, hide inner worry, restlessness
• Be a peacemaker
• Positive traits that are developed by Agrimony:  genuine inner joy, true harmony and inner peace
• To be a skillful diplomat a talented peacemaker, true optimist.
• Agrimony + Chestnut bud: a person may avoid a situation or may avoid another person for fear of confrontation. Confrontation will disturb him. Any disturbance in the peace will make him avoid a situation or escape from the situation. Chestnut Bud – will avoid a person or a situation.
• Straight away prescribe in mediation and negotiations – Agrimony + Beech + Chestnut bud
• For any Skin problem: Agrimony + Crab Apple
• For Blood Pressure: Agrimony + Willow + Cherry plum                            –
• Paralysis: Escapism and avoidance are the two remedies have these key words. Paralysis – too much of Anger. Agrimony will have anger inside or sadness inside but smile outside: Agrimony + Willow + Chestnut bud + Cherry plum.
• By nature I always avoid quarrels, arguments, confrontation: AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER
• I don’t argue because speaking up will only make things worse: AGRIMONY, WATER VIOLET