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The Bach Flower Remedy Agrimony

Key words

I want peace of mind; mental torture, worry, concealed from others


  • You will get a true friend, if you are true to yourself


  • Cheerful, jovial and humorous in the company but depressed when alone
  • By all means, avoids being alone. Adopts peace to be in company of people. Though under tension within.
  • Doesn’t like to argue and thus he will avoid an argument and so gives up his viewpoint easily
  • Desires harmony and peace
  • Hides his worries from others. Will do anything to hide them. So his true feelings are unknown to others.
  • Grieves over little things they failed to do, for e.g., as simple as forgetting to call back or post a letter or unsuccessful sexual encounter
  • Have big desires but acts as though he has very little desires
  • Agrimony is dual in existence – on one side makes attempts to pretend, while on the other side masking his unpleasant side. Good outside, but bad inside, where the bad side may not be known to others.
  • Does anything to hide worry – smoking, drinking etc
  • Likes to be in the company of others
  • Thinks one way, but feels other way
  • Likes – live peacefully, please all the people, do a great deal
  • Escapes into: Movies, parties or actions of any kind
  • Ignore the flaws of partner
  • Dislikes:  any dispute or discord
  • Agrimony’s avoidance is a type of control over his emotions. More and more a person controls finally he will lose control or he will always have a fear of losing control.

Some of the expressions which point to Agrimony are:

  • I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or problems  from others putting up a smiling face
  • I silently bear my sufferings
  • To forget my problems, I work overtime
  • My friends think that I am social and extrovert.  But I only know my problems.
  • When alone in the night, I start worrying. During day time I forget.
  • I like to be always in company
  • During grief, I cry in my room, but I smile outside
  • I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or I silently bear my sufferings


  • It can be given to all those who masturbate
  • People around you will become true friends
  • You will be able to discuss everything including your problems, openly with others
  • You won’t pretend neither will you mask your feelings
  • Agrimony can be very helpful in true communication – Beech + Agrimony
  • Teenagers –conflicting thoughts and emotions – Agrimony will be helpful to resolve them.
  • For children who could not express the intimidation they experience in school.
  • For people who lie – along with chestnut bud
  • Agrimony for any physically sensitive pain as suppressed emotional pains are expressed as physical pains
  • Pulling hair, biting nails, grinding teeth, skin rashes – Internal restlessness
  • To keep peace, to avoid conflict, hide inner worry, restlessness
  • Be a peacemaker
  • Positive traits that are developed by Agrimony:  genuine inner joy, true harmony and inner peace
  • To be a skillful diplomat a talented peacemaker, true optimist.
  • Agrimony + Chestnut bud: a person may avoid a situation or may avoid another person for fear of confrontation. Confrontation will disturb him. Any disturbance in the peace will make him avoid a situation or escape from the situation. Chestnut Bud – will avoid a person or a situation.
  • Straight away prescribe in mediation and negotiations – Agrimony + Beech + Chestnut bud
  • For any Skin problem: Agrimony + Crab Apple
  • For Blood Pressure: Agrimony + Willow + Cherry plum                            –
  • Paralysis: Escapism and avoidance are the two remedies have these key words. Paralysis – too much of Anger. Agrimony will have anger inside or sadness inside but smile outside: Agrimony + Willow + Chestnut bud + Cherry plum.
  • By nature I always avoid quarrels, arguments, confrontation: AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER
  • I don’t argue because speaking up will only make things worse: AGRIMONY, WATER VIOLET

The Well-Wisher

The Bach Flower Remedy Willow

Key Words

Resentment, bitterness, ‘because’ is the key word, will not forgive or forget.  Feels victimized blaming others always.


  • Why should it happen to me?
  • I have not deserved this misfortune.
  • My efforts are not rewarded.
  • Life is unfair.
  • People are utterly ungrateful for the sacrifices I have made.
  • I feel I am neglected, I am bitter about my ….
  • My prayers will never be answered.
  • I feel angry about being cheated by …
  • I feel angry with my father because he didn’t let me choose my clothes
  • I may look better, but I don’t feel better

When you hear all the above statements you can easily find out that it is a willow person.

  • He is always grumbling.
  • He will not forgive or forget anything.
  • Willow person always carries a grudge about a situation or a person for years, never trying to resolve it.
  • The Willow feels he is a victim, i.e. he will not accept responsibility for the situation he is in.
  • The bitterness may develop due to rejection or humiliation.
  • The bitterness may develop after loss.
  • Willow feels resentful towards others or towards life.
  • Wonders why they have been so unfortunate. This is more so if people around him, are successful and fortunate.
  • Willow accepts help from others and takes it for granted.
  • When people think that someone is doing black magic to them.
  • If he is getting old or he couldn’t purchase a house or car, he couldn’t get his promotion, or if he couldn’t do his PhD, he says fate is unfair.


  • Willow is the essence for conciliation and forgiveness.
  • To forget and forgive pray to Willow.
  • Walnut + Willow + Chicory + Cherry plum + Beech forms the Harmony Pack (a combination for harmony). Minimum of 5 pills in water and sprinkle in the house.  Add Rescue Remedy to it when someone explodes suddenly.
  • Willow + Holly – when someone is doing black magic.
  • Sudden loss of appetite.
WILLOW Why should it happen to me
WILLOW I feel that I am singled out by God to suffer
WILLOW I have not deserved this misfortune
WILLOW Fate has treated me unfairly!  Poor me!
WILLOW I can’t help recalling everyone who had caused me trouble
WILLOW I am angry at others
WILLOW I have aversion to life
WILLOW I start disliking everybody – blaming everybody
WILLOW          – Life is unfair including my parents, relatives
WILLOW, HONEYSUCKLE I am angry at past events
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