The Well-Wisher

The Bach Flower Remedy Willow

Key Words

Resentment, bitterness, ‘because’ is the key word, will not forgive or forget.  Feels victimized blaming others always.

Indications

• Why should it happen to me?
• I have not deserved this misfortune.
• My efforts are not rewarded.
• Life is unfair.
• People are utterly ungrateful for the sacrifices I have made.
• I feel I am neglected, I am bitter about my ….
• My prayers will never be answered.
• I feel angry about being cheated by …
• I feel angry with my father because he didn’t let me choose my clothes
• I may look better, but I don’t feel better

When you hear all the above statements you can easily find out that it is a willow person.

• He is always grumbling.
• He will not forgive or forget anything.
• Willow person always carries a grudge about a situation or a person for years, never trying to resolve it.
• The Willow feels he is a victim, i.e. he will not accept responsibility for the situation he is in.
• The bitterness may develop due to rejection or humiliation.
• The bitterness may develop after loss.
• Willow feels resentful towards others or towards life.
• Wonders why they have been so unfortunate. This is more so if people around him, are successful and fortunate.
• Willow accepts help from others and takes it for granted.
• When people think that someone is doing black magic to them.
• If he is getting old or he couldn’t purchase a house or car, he couldn’t get his promotion, or if he couldn’t do his PhD, he says fate is unfair.

Usage

• Willow is the essence for conciliation and forgiveness.
• To forget and forgive pray to Willow.
• Walnut + Willow + Chicory + Cherry plum + Beech forms the Harmony Pack (a combination for harmony). Minimum of 5 pills in water and sprinkle in the house.  Add Rescue Remedy to it when someone explodes suddenly.
• Willow + Holly – when someone is doing black magic.
• Sudden loss of appetite.

WILLOW	Why should it happen to me
WILLOW	I feel that I am singled out by God to suffer
WILLOW	I have not deserved this misfortune
WILLOW	Fate has treated me unfairly!  Poor me!
WILLOW	I can’t help recalling everyone who had caused me trouble
WILLOW	I am angry at others
WILLOW	I have aversion to life
WILLOW	I start disliking everybody – blaming everybody
WILLOW          –	Life is unfair including my parents, relatives
WILLOW, HONEYSUCKLE	I am angry at past events

Be Happy Don’t Worry

The Bach Flower Remedy Gentian

Key Words

Trust and faith; message from Gentian, “I trust my inner self”

Expressions

Doubt, depression, discouragement, pessimism, Thinks always negative, sad look always, sorrowful, total dissatisfaction, grudging starting the work, great doubters.

Indications

• Do you think you have to grasp everything by intellect alone? By rational analysis? You do analysis over and question any time? So that your view is always negative? Is a negative view of an issue is a ‘must’ for you?
• You expect failure in anything. How badly things are going for me?
• I don’t feel comfortable unless I have something to worry about.
• When you have no option, Gorse gives you hope and opens another door.
• Even I need plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from all dying difficulties.
• Gentian harbors doubt about healing. He harbors negative thoughts in positive situation.  He is never happy in any situation.
• Whenever there is failure he blames himself unlucky.
• When something is not happening according to our choice.
• Temporary regression that occurs in a project or healing.
• “No heat sensation” the Gentian Reiki channel would say.  After the treatment, if the patient comes and says “I feel quieter in mind, I wonder it may be wishful thinking.”
• The Doctor would have cured many, but in my case he may not.
• Death of a Husband/ Wife, continued unemployment, children of Divorced parents, old people in old age home – all these states require Gentian.
• For children who have become upset over minor setbacks, and not willing to go back to school – Gentian.
• Stagnation in anything (when there is no water in the well etc.)
• Sudden regression of disease.

Usage

• Gentian will make you know there are solutions for all the problems.
• Problem is turned into opportunities with Gentian.
• Gentian + Hornbeam – for stagnation.
• Gentian + Hornbeam + Wild Rose – for long stagnation of anything.
• Gentian + Chicory + Mustard – to stop unwanted, unnecessary expenditure (Keep in the hand bag)

GENTIAN	Whenever anything goes wrong, I am discouraged and easily upset
GENTIAN	I am pessimistic – I always have negative thoughts
GENTIAN	I become sad and depressed even for petty reasons
GENTIAN	There is always an aura of sadness around me
GENTIAN	I am depressed and getting older in mind
GENTIAN	I feel I have lost happiness
GENTIAN	I feel that nobody is of any use to me
GENTIAN	I feel sad that nothing works for me
GENTIAN	I am not happy, God wants me to be sad; in sorrow
GENTIAN	I am pessimistic – I am easily discouraged and depressed when anything goes wrong
GENTIAN	Is your earlier failure the cause of your lack of confidence?
GENTIAN	Any failure upsets him very much
MIMULUS, GENTIAN	He has become moody and irritable
GENTIAN	I expect and anticipate failures only – i.e., I am depressed and discouraged
GENTIAN	I now have a feeling that whatever I undertake, will go wrong
GENTIAN	I feel that I should not have been born

Story from the past

Mullah cried one day saying that his grandfather died, leaving behind a property worth ten lakhs.

When asked why he is crying, he said that he had lost both his uncles leaving behind some more property worth lakhs of rupees.

When asked why he was still unhappy and crying, he said that there is no one else left in his family to die and leave behind property for him.

That was a Gentian person in action – never happy in life.