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The Bach Flower Remedy Holly

Key Words

Hatred, envy, suspicious, doubt, revengeful attitude, no humour

Message from Holly

“I love”

Indications

  • Anger , Rage
  • Fears of being deceived
  • Frequently feel offended or hurt
  • You are easily annoyed or you get angry at everything and everybody
  • Have you ever felt pain when you heard about some one’s luck or happiness?
  • Was there any occasion you become violent and overheated?
  • Sibling rivalry
  • Will do harm to others
  • The control negative feature of this flower is suspicion.  Holly is specific in paranoid personality disorder.  The person thinks that others are there to deceive him or play tricks on him.
  • He doubts the loyalty of others
  • He doesn’t make friends easily
  • He has no sense of humor
  • He is irritated because of suspicion
  • He considers everybody as his enemy
  • He has jealousy with anger and insults others
  • He feels others are happy
  • He gets easily offended by jokes
  • Holly people live in a constant state of restless irritation, get angry easily and lose control of them
  • Even a fly on the wall will anger them in situations of extreme tension

Some of the statements from a Holly person are…

  • Others always misunderstand me
  • I feel angry at everybody including myself
  • I easily fly into a rage
  • Sometimes, I am so tense that even a small thing makes me mad
  • I often get angry at myself, especially when someone has persuaded me to do something I actually do not want to do
  • I often have uncontrollable temper tantrums
  • I am constantly unsatisfied and suffer for no reason
  • My friends say I am hot-tempered
  • Sometimes, I am very unfriendly, although the other person has given me no reason to be
  • I often wake up at night to my own voice and hear myself complaining out aloud
  • I am resentful
  • I am very suspicious
  • It is very difficult for me to forgive myself or others
  • I feel very jealous when my husband goes to a seminar and therefore, he has to call home every hour.
  • I often envy other women who are prettier than I am
  • My temper has become violent (Holly has no feelings of compassion)
  • I hate……… who has such a happy life
  • I am bad-tempered, discontented and frustrated, I don’t know why? Now I have come to a stage where I can’t trust anybody.

Usage

  • HOLLY protects us from everything that is not universal love. It opens our heart and unites us with divine love.
  • The flower remedy HOLLY helps against anger, hate, envy, jealousy, suspicion and revengefulness
  • Cut off from others – HOLLY + HEATHER
  • I always have a feeling of being deceived (deceit). I always suspect that there is something negative in what people say: HOLLY + CRAB APPLE
  • I feel offended or hurt easily.
  • When I hear of somebody’s luck or happiness or growth, a flash of envy or jealousy comes in the heart: HOLLY + CHICORY
  • As a result of their temperament, Holly people suffer acute and violent illness for example, sudden high fever, inflammation burning or itching, skin rashes, allergies.  In these cases HOLLY can be considered.
  • Sudden shooting of temperature or BP: HOLLY + CHERRY PLUM
HOLLY I have become jealous of others
HOLLY I start feeling that people have “ulterior motives” I start suspecting them
MIMULUS, HOLLY The child is often irritable, aggressive

 

Open up to Abundant Love, Life

Mother says on Balsam Flower: “Generosity in the Physical…Likes abundance and gives abundantly.”

Receive by Giving

Means generosity…What is generosity? It means giving without bargaining. Where can we use it? In selling your property or buying a property…

A person is generous means he is acting from the heart centre.  He minds about only giving. He doesn’t think about receiving.

If we need that kind of generosity in our heart, we can project the Balsam flower in our heart centre.

Managing mean-minded people, who wants to cheat you

If any person is mean-minded and not giving your money…

One might have taken your money and he is dodging to give it back to you. He might be avoiding you or evading you. Paste the picture on him (write his name on a paper and paste), and meditate on the flower.

Between brothers and sisters there is always a dispute whether to give the equal share to all-concerned. Then you could use this flower.

Getting donations

For voluntary agencies, to collect donations from people, they can have this picture or they could put the picture of Balsam in their letter-head.

If you suggest to them, they might ask you to do it for them. For that we need to be generous.

If you visualize Balsam flower in your heart centre (chakra), you will attract people who are generous and who are not bargaining.

Making people fair to you

If anybody is unfair, aggressive, ill-tempered or spiteful, paste this picture on the name of the person or visualize the flower in their heart centre. Also, you can project the flowers on others, the moment you think about the flowers, they appear, as they represent divine in this world.

Only Red Balsam has got the above-mentioned properties.

Opening of heart and throat chakras

This Balsam flower opens the heart centre to a very great extent.

Is it alright to keep on give without receiving anything, as at someday I might become pauper? That question will come only from the solar plexus centre, which is below the heart centre. When the throat is closed, even when the heart is open, that question or doubt will arise in us.

When the throat chakra opens up, one will start believe in abundance in receiving. It talks only gods-ways.

Surrendering (to divinity) comes to us, when the throat chakra is opened. If you are not worried about receiving, it happens.

So don’t believe even if a clairvoyant says your throat chakra is open fully. Ask the question, “Do I have the surrendering attitude to divinity? Do I believe in giving without receiving?” If the answer is “yes”, it means that the heart and throat are opened. Otherwise, they are not opened.

Our hearts are closed when…

  • In the previous lifetime, you would have suffered a bad love life, and therefore, you have closed your heart to others in this lifetime
  • Might have had a bad childhood
  • Had experienced a traumatic relationship
  • You may remain single
  • You may be childless

When your heart is closed…

How to open up your heart?

Meditate on Balsam flower, look at the picture of Balsam flower or chant Balsam. You can also do a prayer to Balsam.

Get married by praying to Balsam

“O Balsam Flower! Please open my heart centre, which might have been closed due to unfavorable events and emotions either in the past life or in the present life.  Open my heart. Prepare me to connect to the person, who is meant to be with me in this life forever”.

The unmarried or a divorcee can say this prayer to Balsam, by keeping the picture on the heart.

Be Happy Don’t Worry

The Bach Flower Remedy Gentian

Key Words

Trust and faith; message from Gentian, “I trust my inner self”

Expressions

Doubt, depression, discouragement, pessimism, Thinks always negative, sad look always, sorrowful, total dissatisfaction, grudging starting the work, great doubters.

Indications

  • Do you think you have to grasp everything by intellect alone? By rational analysis? You do analysis over and question any time? So that your view is always negative? Is a negative view of an issue is a ‘must’ for you?
  • You expect failure in anything. How badly things are going for me?
  • I don’t feel comfortable unless I have something to worry about.
  • When you have no option, Gorse gives you hope and opens another door.
  • Even I need plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from all dying difficulties.
  • Gentian harbors doubt about healing. He harbors negative thoughts in positive situation.  He is never happy in any situation.
  • Whenever there is failure he blames himself unlucky.
  • When something is not happening according to our choice.
  • Temporary regression that occurs in a project or healing.
  • “No heat sensation” the Gentian Reiki channel would say.  After the treatment, if the patient comes and says “I feel quieter in mind, I wonder it may be wishful thinking.”
  • The Doctor would have cured many, but in my case he may not.
  • Death of a Husband/ Wife, continued unemployment, children of Divorced parents, old people in old age home – all these states require Gentian.
  • For children who have become upset over minor setbacks, and not willing to go back to school – Gentian.
  • Stagnation in anything (when there is no water in the well etc.)
  • Sudden regression of disease.

Usage

  • Gentian will make you know there are solutions for all the problems.
  • Problem is turned into opportunities with Gentian.
  • Gentian + Hornbeam – for stagnation.
  • Gentian + Hornbeam + Wild Rose – for long stagnation of anything.
  • Gentian + Chicory + Mustard – to stop unwanted, unnecessary expenditure (Keep in the hand bag)
GENTIAN Whenever anything goes wrong, I am discouraged and easily upset
GENTIAN I am pessimistic – I always have negative thoughts
GENTIAN I become sad and depressed even for petty reasons
GENTIAN There is always an aura of sadness around me
GENTIAN I am depressed and getting older in mind
GENTIAN I feel I have lost happiness
GENTIAN I feel that nobody is of any use to me
GENTIAN I feel sad that nothing works for me
GENTIAN I am not happy, God wants me to be sad; in sorrow
GENTIAN I am pessimistic – I am easily discouraged and depressed when anything goes wrong
GENTIAN Is your earlier failure the cause of your lack of confidence?
GENTIAN Any failure upsets him very much
MIMULUS, GENTIAN He has become moody and irritable
GENTIAN I expect and anticipate failures only – i.e., I am depressed and discouraged
GENTIAN I now have a feeling that whatever I undertake, will go wrong
GENTIAN I feel that I should not have been born

Story from the past

Mullah cried one day saying that his grandfather died, leaving behind a property worth ten lakhs.

When asked why he is crying, he said that he had lost both his uncles leaving behind some more property worth lakhs of rupees.

When asked why he was still unhappy and crying, he said that there is no one else left in his family to die and leave behind property for him.

That was a Gentian person in action – never happy in life.

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