The Universal Lover

The Bach Flower Remedy Holly

Key Words

Hatred, envy, suspicious, doubt, revengeful attitude, no humour

Message from Holly

“I love”

Indications

• Anger , Rage
• Fears of being deceived
• Frequently feel offended or hurt
• You are easily annoyed or you get angry at everything and everybody
• Have you ever felt pain when you heard about some one’s luck or happiness?
• Was there any occasion you become violent and overheated?
• Sibling rivalry
• Will do harm to others
• The control negative feature of this flower is suspicion.  Holly is specific in paranoid personality disorder.  The person thinks that others are there to deceive him or play tricks on him.
• He doubts the loyalty of others
• He doesn’t make friends easily
• He has no sense of humor
• He is irritated because of suspicion
• He considers everybody as his enemy
• He has jealousy with anger and insults others
• He feels others are happy
• He gets easily offended by jokes
• Holly people live in a constant state of restless irritation, get angry easily and lose control of them
• Even a fly on the wall will anger them in situations of extreme tension

Some of the statements from a Holly person are…

• Others always misunderstand me
• I feel angry at everybody including myself
• I easily fly into a rage
• Sometimes, I am so tense that even a small thing makes me mad
• I often get angry at myself, especially when someone has persuaded me to do something I actually do not want to do
• I often have uncontrollable temper tantrums
• I am constantly unsatisfied and suffer for no reason
• My friends say I am hot-tempered
• Sometimes, I am very unfriendly, although the other person has given me no reason to be
• I often wake up at night to my own voice and hear myself complaining out aloud
• I am resentful
• I am very suspicious
• It is very difficult for me to forgive myself or others
• I feel very jealous when my husband goes to a seminar and therefore, he has to call home every hour.
• I often envy other women who are prettier than I am
• My temper has become violent (Holly has no feelings of compassion)
• I hate……… who has such a happy life
• I am bad-tempered, discontented and frustrated, I don’t know why? Now I have come to a stage where I can’t trust anybody.

Usage

• HOLLY protects us from everything that is not universal love. It opens our heart and unites us with divine love.
• The flower remedy HOLLY helps against anger, hate, envy, jealousy, suspicion and revengefulness
• Cut off from others – HOLLY + HEATHER
• I always have a feeling of being deceived (deceit). I always suspect that there is something negative in what people say: HOLLY + CRAB APPLE
• I feel offended or hurt easily.
• When I hear of somebody’s luck or happiness or growth, a flash of envy or jealousy comes in the heart: HOLLY + CHICORY
• As a result of their temperament, Holly people suffer acute and violent illness for example, sudden high fever, inflammation burning or itching, skin rashes, allergies.  In these cases HOLLY can be considered.
• Sudden shooting of temperature or BP: HOLLY + CHERRY PLUM

HOLLY	I have become jealous of others
HOLLY	I start feeling that people have “ulterior motives” I start suspecting them
MIMULUS, HOLLY	The child is often irritable, aggressive

 

Be Happy Don’t Worry

The Bach Flower Remedy Gentian

Key Words

Trust and faith; message from Gentian, “I trust my inner self”

Expressions

Doubt, depression, discouragement, pessimism, Thinks always negative, sad look always, sorrowful, total dissatisfaction, grudging starting the work, great doubters.

Indications

• Do you think you have to grasp everything by intellect alone? By rational analysis? You do analysis over and question any time? So that your view is always negative? Is a negative view of an issue is a ‘must’ for you?
• You expect failure in anything. How badly things are going for me?
• I don’t feel comfortable unless I have something to worry about.
• When you have no option, Gorse gives you hope and opens another door.
• Even I need plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from all dying difficulties.
• Gentian harbors doubt about healing. He harbors negative thoughts in positive situation.  He is never happy in any situation.
• Whenever there is failure he blames himself unlucky.
• When something is not happening according to our choice.
• Temporary regression that occurs in a project or healing.
• “No heat sensation” the Gentian Reiki channel would say.  After the treatment, if the patient comes and says “I feel quieter in mind, I wonder it may be wishful thinking.”
• The Doctor would have cured many, but in my case he may not.
• Death of a Husband/ Wife, continued unemployment, children of Divorced parents, old people in old age home – all these states require Gentian.
• For children who have become upset over minor setbacks, and not willing to go back to school – Gentian.
• Stagnation in anything (when there is no water in the well etc.)
• Sudden regression of disease.

Usage

• Gentian will make you know there are solutions for all the problems.
• Problem is turned into opportunities with Gentian.
• Gentian + Hornbeam – for stagnation.
• Gentian + Hornbeam + Wild Rose – for long stagnation of anything.
• Gentian + Chicory + Mustard – to stop unwanted, unnecessary expenditure (Keep in the hand bag)

GENTIAN	Whenever anything goes wrong, I am discouraged and easily upset
GENTIAN	I am pessimistic – I always have negative thoughts
GENTIAN	I become sad and depressed even for petty reasons
GENTIAN	There is always an aura of sadness around me
GENTIAN	I am depressed and getting older in mind
GENTIAN	I feel I have lost happiness
GENTIAN	I feel that nobody is of any use to me
GENTIAN	I feel sad that nothing works for me
GENTIAN	I am not happy, God wants me to be sad; in sorrow
GENTIAN	I am pessimistic – I am easily discouraged and depressed when anything goes wrong
GENTIAN	Is your earlier failure the cause of your lack of confidence?
GENTIAN	Any failure upsets him very much
MIMULUS, GENTIAN	He has become moody and irritable
GENTIAN	I expect and anticipate failures only – i.e., I am depressed and discouraged
GENTIAN	I now have a feeling that whatever I undertake, will go wrong
GENTIAN	I feel that I should not have been born

Story from the past

Mullah cried one day saying that his grandfather died, leaving behind a property worth ten lakhs.

When asked why he is crying, he said that he had lost both his uncles leaving behind some more property worth lakhs of rupees.

When asked why he was still unhappy and crying, he said that there is no one else left in his family to die and leave behind property for him.

That was a Gentian person in action – never happy in life.