Never pray for more than you want
A person in the “Introduction to Bach Flower Remedy” class complained that her son loves her too much. He has taken leave for a week and showering all his love for her. She wanted his love to be curtailed.
I warned her in the Reiki class, when you write an affirmation and give Reiki to it, it will happen and you need to be ready for the consequences. That is, we should ask for what we need and not what we want.
Why Chicory? Chicory person will eat less in the hotel because he is spending money for it. He or she will spend less and therefore, they also take less.
Energy of thanks
Is there a flower that opens one up the energy of thanks or gratitude in general?
A send-off speech well-received
Sometime back, when I was asked to give a send-off speech for one of our overseas consultants, you asked me to take Chicory and give the speech. Please explain the connection.
Chicory will not appreciate in full. He will give it in installments. Even the salary that he has to pay his employees, he will not pay on time. He will give it bit by bit.
For example, a politician will not complement his associates in total. He will keep them in check by offering complements little by little.
Will manipulate others
HEATHER person will approach a person and will get rejected, for he will be always be talking about his problems.
A Chicory person on the other hand, will manipulate to receive love. However, she will never be satisfied as she is like a pot with a hole.
Of course, to receive love she will do anything. In that process, she will become HEATHER, rejected by the opposite person.
Do anything to get love
Will lie, to get love and become a CHESTNUT BUD.
And give love to receive love. So, she can become a CENTAURY too.
A Chicory person will constantly interfere with others. He has to give them input on continuous basis. He will not let go the other person unless his work done. So he will invite IMPATIENS people, who will not be able to tolerate a Chicory person.
A Chicory person is a possessive person. Eventually this will make her suspicious and thus she will become a HOLLY person.
The only person, who will get all the attention, during a funeral, is the person who is dead. “If I had to die to get all the attention in the world, then I am ready to die”, said an English statesman.
Chicory is such a person.
From Meditation on Bach Flowers CD:
Chicory characteristics are an ocean. Nobody can understand its true nature. So we can go on talking about it. So our prayer to Chicory is longer than others too…
“Chicory, you symbolize mother’s love. You represent unconditional love. Let me love selflessly. Let me have true concern for others.
Whenever I am filled up with self-pity, Chicory, remind me, guide me that I am loved and approved by all
Whenever I feel hurt or rejected, remind me that I am loved by god. Whenever, I get angry at the ingratitude of others, remind me Chicory to forget and forgive.
Release my ego-centric needs. Release my possessive nature. Release my self-love.
There is a thirst for love which no human relations can quench. It is only the divine love that can satisfy that thirst. Let this message of yours Chicory, be the guiding force of my life.”
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Mother says on Balsam Flower: “Generosity in the Physical…Likes abundance and gives abundantly.”
Receive by Giving
Means generosity…What is generosity? It means giving without bargaining. Where can we use it? In selling your property or buying a property…
A person is generous means he is acting from the heart centre. He minds about only giving. He doesn’t think about receiving.
If we need that kind of generosity in our heart, we can project the Balsam flower in our heart centre.
Managing mean-minded people, who wants to cheat you
If any person is mean-minded and not giving your money…
One might have taken your money and he is dodging to give it back to you. He might be avoiding you or evading you. Paste the picture on him (write his name on a paper and paste), and meditate on the flower.
Between brothers and sisters there is always a dispute whether to give the equal share to all-concerned. Then you could use this flower.
For voluntary agencies, to collect donations from people, they can have this picture or they could put the picture of Balsam in their letter-head.
If you suggest to them, they might ask you to do it for them. For that we need to be generous.
If you visualize Balsam flower in your heart centre (chakra), you will attract people who are generous and who are not bargaining.
Making people fair to you
If anybody is unfair, aggressive, ill-tempered or spiteful, paste this picture on the name of the person or visualize the flower in their heart centre. Also, you can project the flowers on others, the moment you think about the flowers, they appear, as they represent divine in this world.
Only Red Balsam has got the above-mentioned properties.
Opening of heart and throat chakras
This Balsam flower opens the heart centre to a very great extent.
Is it alright to keep on give without receiving anything, as at someday I might become pauper? That question will come only from the solar plexus centre, which is below the heart centre. When the throat is closed, even when the heart is open, that question or doubt will arise in us.
When the throat chakra opens up, one will start believe in abundance in receiving. It talks only gods-ways.
Surrendering (to divinity) comes to us, when the throat chakra is opened. If you are not worried about receiving, it happens.
So don’t believe even if a clairvoyant says your throat chakra is open fully. Ask the question, “Do I have the surrendering attitude to divinity? Do I believe in giving without receiving?” If the answer is “yes”, it means that the heart and throat are opened. Otherwise, they are not opened.
Our hearts are closed when…
- In the previous lifetime, you would have suffered a bad love life, and therefore, you have closed your heart to others in this lifetime
- Might have had a bad childhood
- Had experienced a traumatic relationship
- You may remain single
- You may be childless
When your heart is closed…
How to open up your heart?
Meditate on Balsam flower, look at the picture of Balsam flower or chant Balsam. You can also do a prayer to Balsam.
Get married by praying to Balsam
“O Balsam Flower! Please open my heart centre, which might have been closed due to unfavorable events and emotions either in the past life or in the present life. Open my heart. Prepare me to connect to the person, who is meant to be with me in this life forever”.
The unmarried or a divorcee can say this prayer to Balsam, by keeping the picture on the heart.
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The Bach Flower Remedy Gentian
Trust and faith; message from Gentian, “I trust my inner self”
Doubt, depression, discouragement, pessimism, Thinks always negative, sad look always, sorrowful, total dissatisfaction, grudging starting the work, great doubters.
- Do you think you have to grasp everything by intellect alone? By rational analysis? You do analysis over and question any time? So that your view is always negative? Is a negative view of an issue is a ‘must’ for you?
- You expect failure in anything. How badly things are going for me?
- I don’t feel comfortable unless I have something to worry about.
- When you have no option, Gorse gives you hope and opens another door.
- Even I need plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from all dying difficulties.
- Gentian harbors doubt about healing. He harbors negative thoughts in positive situation. He is never happy in any situation.
- Whenever there is failure he blames himself unlucky.
- When something is not happening according to our choice.
- Temporary regression that occurs in a project or healing.
- “No heat sensation” the Gentian Reiki channel would say. After the treatment, if the patient comes and says “I feel quieter in mind, I wonder it may be wishful thinking.”
- The Doctor would have cured many, but in my case he may not.
- Death of a Husband/ Wife, continued unemployment, children of Divorced parents, old people in old age home – all these states require Gentian.
- For children who have become upset over minor setbacks, and not willing to go back to school – Gentian.
- Stagnation in anything (when there is no water in the well etc.)
- Sudden regression of disease.
- Gentian will make you know there are solutions for all the problems.
- Problem is turned into opportunities with Gentian.
- Gentian + Hornbeam – for stagnation.
- Gentian + Hornbeam + Wild Rose – for long stagnation of anything.
- Gentian + Chicory + Mustard – to stop unwanted, unnecessary expenditure (Keep in the hand bag)
|GENTIAN||Whenever anything goes wrong, I am discouraged and easily upset|
|GENTIAN||I am pessimistic – I always have negative thoughts|
|GENTIAN||I become sad and depressed even for petty reasons|
|GENTIAN||There is always an aura of sadness around me|
|GENTIAN||I am depressed and getting older in mind|
|GENTIAN||I feel I have lost happiness|
|GENTIAN||I feel that nobody is of any use to me|
|GENTIAN||I feel sad that nothing works for me|
|GENTIAN||I am not happy, God wants me to be sad; in sorrow|
|GENTIAN||I am pessimistic – I am easily discouraged and depressed when anything goes wrong|
|GENTIAN||Is your earlier failure the cause of your lack of confidence?|
|GENTIAN||Any failure upsets him very much|
|MIMULUS, GENTIAN||He has become moody and irritable|
|GENTIAN||I expect and anticipate failures only – i.e., I am depressed and discouraged|
|GENTIAN||I now have a feeling that whatever I undertake, will go wrong|
|GENTIAN||I feel that I should not have been born|
Story from the past
Mullah cried one day saying that his grandfather died, leaving behind a property worth ten lakhs.
When asked why he is crying, he said that he had lost both his uncles leaving behind some more property worth lakhs of rupees.
When asked why he was still unhappy and crying, he said that there is no one else left in his family to die and leave behind property for him.
That was a Gentian person in action – never happy in life.
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The Bach Flower Remedy Crab Apple
The cleanser, over-emphasis on trivial details, always thinks about cleanliness, frequent washing of hands
- He wants to get rid of anything unclean
- Obsessive cleanliness, always washing hands
- Crab Apple thinks and worries about trivialities
- He always talks about infection
- Crab Apple opens the mind to initiate change, so that self-acceptance will be there.
- “Sex is dirty” is the expression of Crab Apple
- When there is a need to hide the wrong or unclean aspect
- Always with a mirror, and always concerned about physical looks
- Self-dislike teenager’s remedy.
- Others are teasing me for my appearance
- I am obsessed with hygiene and cleanliness
- Total mental and physical cleanser
- Releases shame in sex abuse
- Keep Crab Apple in the North East corner of the marriage hall
- To protect one’s energy field – Crab Apple + Walnut
- After steroid intake, to overcome the hangover, Crab Apple is a must.
- It is recommended for doctors who work in a hospital.
- To overcome the side effects of allopathic drugs.
- Obsessive cleanliness – Crab Apple + White chestnut + Walnut + Pine
- Remedy for pimples – Crab Apple + Walnut (mix in Olive oil and massage)
- Take the remedy thrice a day internally.
- For all skin diseases, psoriasis for example – Crab Apple is the base remedy
- Dust allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Yellow Sapphire
- Food Allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Beech + Holly
- For dryness or oily skin – Crab Apple (in bath)
The above mentioned remedies are Bach flower remedies, except for Yellow Sapphire, which is a gem remedy. They are available in Homeopathy shops across the world or in the Center. Gem remedies are available in the centre in the form of pills.
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