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Will do anything to manipulate others

Never pray for more than you want

A person in the “Introduction to Bach Flower Remedy” class complained that her son loves her too much. He has taken leave for a week and showering all his love for her. She wanted his love to be curtailed.

Naran

I warned her in the Reiki class, when you write an affirmation and give Reiki to it, it will happen and you need to be ready for the consequences. That is, we should ask for what we need and not what we want.

Take “CHICORY”.

Why Chicory? Chicory person will eat less in the hotel because he is spending money for it. He or she will spend less and therefore, they also take less.

Energy of thanks

Grace

Is there a flower that opens one up the energy of thanks or gratitude in general?

Naran

Chicory

A send-off speech well-received

R Mohan

Sometime back, when I was asked to give a send-off speech for one of our overseas consultants, you asked me to take Chicory and give the speech. Please explain the connection.

Naran

Chicory will not appreciate in full. He will give it in installments. Even the salary that he has to pay his employees, he will not pay on time. He will give it bit by bit.

For example, a politician will not complement his associates in total. He will keep them in check by offering complements little by little.

Will manipulate others

HEATHER person will approach a person and will get rejected, for he will be always be talking about his problems.

A Chicory person on the other hand, will manipulate to receive love. However, she will never be satisfied as she is like a pot with a hole.

Of course, to receive love she will do anything. In that process, she will become HEATHER, rejected by the opposite person.

Do anything to get love

Will lie, to get love and become a CHESTNUT BUD.

And give love to receive love. So, she can become a CENTAURY too.

A Chicory person will constantly interfere with others. He has to give them input on continuous basis. He will not let go the other person unless his work done. So he will invite IMPATIENS people, who will not be able to tolerate a Chicory person.

A Chicory person is a possessive person. Eventually this will make her suspicious and thus she will become a HOLLY person.

The only person, who will get all the attention, during a funeral, is the person who is dead. “If I had to die to get all the attention in the world, then I am ready to die”, said an English statesman.

Chicory is such a person.

From Meditation on Bach Flowers CD:

Chicory characteristics are an ocean. Nobody can understand its true nature. So we can go on talking about it. So our prayer to Chicory is longer than others too…

“Chicory, you symbolize mother’s love. You represent unconditional love. Let me love selflessly. Let me have true concern for others.

Whenever I am filled up with self-pity, Chicory, remind me, guide me that I am loved and approved by all

Whenever I feel hurt or rejected, remind me that I am loved by god. Whenever, I get angry at the ingratitude of others, remind me Chicory to forget and forgive.

Release my ego-centric needs. Release my possessive nature. Release my self-love.

There is a thirst for love which no human relations can quench. It is only the divine love that can satisfy that thirst. Let this message of yours Chicory, be the guiding force of my life.”

The Universal Lover

The Bach Flower Remedy Holly

Key Words

Hatred, envy, suspicious, doubt, revengeful attitude, no humour

Message from Holly

“I love”

Indications

  • Anger , Rage
  • Fears of being deceived
  • Frequently feel offended or hurt
  • You are easily annoyed or you get angry at everything and everybody
  • Have you ever felt pain when you heard about some one’s luck or happiness?
  • Was there any occasion you become violent and overheated?
  • Sibling rivalry
  • Will do harm to others
  • The control negative feature of this flower is suspicion.  Holly is specific in paranoid personality disorder.  The person thinks that others are there to deceive him or play tricks on him.
  • He doubts the loyalty of others
  • He doesn’t make friends easily
  • He has no sense of humor
  • He is irritated because of suspicion
  • He considers everybody as his enemy
  • He has jealousy with anger and insults others
  • He feels others are happy
  • He gets easily offended by jokes
  • Holly people live in a constant state of restless irritation, get angry easily and lose control of them
  • Even a fly on the wall will anger them in situations of extreme tension

Some of the statements from a Holly person are…

  • Others always misunderstand me
  • I feel angry at everybody including myself
  • I easily fly into a rage
  • Sometimes, I am so tense that even a small thing makes me mad
  • I often get angry at myself, especially when someone has persuaded me to do something I actually do not want to do
  • I often have uncontrollable temper tantrums
  • I am constantly unsatisfied and suffer for no reason
  • My friends say I am hot-tempered
  • Sometimes, I am very unfriendly, although the other person has given me no reason to be
  • I often wake up at night to my own voice and hear myself complaining out aloud
  • I am resentful
  • I am very suspicious
  • It is very difficult for me to forgive myself or others
  • I feel very jealous when my husband goes to a seminar and therefore, he has to call home every hour.
  • I often envy other women who are prettier than I am
  • My temper has become violent (Holly has no feelings of compassion)
  • I hate……… who has such a happy life
  • I am bad-tempered, discontented and frustrated, I don’t know why? Now I have come to a stage where I can’t trust anybody.

Usage

  • HOLLY protects us from everything that is not universal love. It opens our heart and unites us with divine love.
  • The flower remedy HOLLY helps against anger, hate, envy, jealousy, suspicion and revengefulness
  • Cut off from others – HOLLY + HEATHER
  • I always have a feeling of being deceived (deceit). I always suspect that there is something negative in what people say: HOLLY + CRAB APPLE
  • I feel offended or hurt easily.
  • When I hear of somebody’s luck or happiness or growth, a flash of envy or jealousy comes in the heart: HOLLY + CHICORY
  • As a result of their temperament, Holly people suffer acute and violent illness for example, sudden high fever, inflammation burning or itching, skin rashes, allergies.  In these cases HOLLY can be considered.
  • Sudden shooting of temperature or BP: HOLLY + CHERRY PLUM
HOLLY I have become jealous of others
HOLLY I start feeling that people have “ulterior motives” I start suspecting them
MIMULUS, HOLLY The child is often irritable, aggressive

 

Open up to Abundant Love, Life

Mother says on Balsam Flower: “Generosity in the Physical…Likes abundance and gives abundantly.”

Receive by Giving

Means generosity…What is generosity? It means giving without bargaining. Where can we use it? In selling your property or buying a property…

A person is generous means he is acting from the heart centre.  He minds about only giving. He doesn’t think about receiving.

If we need that kind of generosity in our heart, we can project the Balsam flower in our heart centre.

Managing mean-minded people, who wants to cheat you

If any person is mean-minded and not giving your money…

One might have taken your money and he is dodging to give it back to you. He might be avoiding you or evading you. Paste the picture on him (write his name on a paper and paste), and meditate on the flower.

Between brothers and sisters there is always a dispute whether to give the equal share to all-concerned. Then you could use this flower.

Getting donations

For voluntary agencies, to collect donations from people, they can have this picture or they could put the picture of Balsam in their letter-head.

If you suggest to them, they might ask you to do it for them. For that we need to be generous.

If you visualize Balsam flower in your heart centre (chakra), you will attract people who are generous and who are not bargaining.

Making people fair to you

If anybody is unfair, aggressive, ill-tempered or spiteful, paste this picture on the name of the person or visualize the flower in their heart centre. Also, you can project the flowers on others, the moment you think about the flowers, they appear, as they represent divine in this world.

Only Red Balsam has got the above-mentioned properties.

Opening of heart and throat chakras

This Balsam flower opens the heart centre to a very great extent.

Is it alright to keep on give without receiving anything, as at someday I might become pauper? That question will come only from the solar plexus centre, which is below the heart centre. When the throat is closed, even when the heart is open, that question or doubt will arise in us.

When the throat chakra opens up, one will start believe in abundance in receiving. It talks only gods-ways.

Surrendering (to divinity) comes to us, when the throat chakra is opened. If you are not worried about receiving, it happens.

So don’t believe even if a clairvoyant says your throat chakra is open fully. Ask the question, “Do I have the surrendering attitude to divinity? Do I believe in giving without receiving?” If the answer is “yes”, it means that the heart and throat are opened. Otherwise, they are not opened.

Our hearts are closed when…

  • In the previous lifetime, you would have suffered a bad love life, and therefore, you have closed your heart to others in this lifetime
  • Might have had a bad childhood
  • Had experienced a traumatic relationship
  • You may remain single
  • You may be childless

When your heart is closed…

How to open up your heart?

Meditate on Balsam flower, look at the picture of Balsam flower or chant Balsam. You can also do a prayer to Balsam.

Get married by praying to Balsam

“O Balsam Flower! Please open my heart centre, which might have been closed due to unfavorable events and emotions either in the past life or in the present life.  Open my heart. Prepare me to connect to the person, who is meant to be with me in this life forever”.

The unmarried or a divorcee can say this prayer to Balsam, by keeping the picture on the heart.

The Peacemaker

The Bach Flower Remedy Agrimony

Key words

I want peace of mind; mental torture, worry, concealed from others

Message

  • You will get a true friend, if you are true to yourself

Indications

  • Cheerful, jovial and humorous in the company but depressed when alone
  • By all means, avoids being alone. Adopts peace to be in company of people. Though under tension within.
  • Doesn’t like to argue and thus he will avoid an argument and so gives up his viewpoint easily
  • Desires harmony and peace
  • Hides his worries from others. Will do anything to hide them. So his true feelings are unknown to others.
  • Grieves over little things they failed to do, for e.g., as simple as forgetting to call back or post a letter or unsuccessful sexual encounter
  • Have big desires but acts as though he has very little desires
  • Agrimony is dual in existence – on one side makes attempts to pretend, while on the other side masking his unpleasant side. Good outside, but bad inside, where the bad side may not be known to others.
  • Does anything to hide worry – smoking, drinking etc
  • Likes to be in the company of others
  • Thinks one way, but feels other way
  • Likes – live peacefully, please all the people, do a great deal
  • Escapes into: Movies, parties or actions of any kind
  • Ignore the flaws of partner
  • Dislikes:  any dispute or discord
  • Agrimony’s avoidance is a type of control over his emotions. More and more a person controls finally he will lose control or he will always have a fear of losing control.

Some of the expressions which point to Agrimony are:

  • I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or problems  from others putting up a smiling face
  • I silently bear my sufferings
  • To forget my problems, I work overtime
  • My friends think that I am social and extrovert.  But I only know my problems.
  • When alone in the night, I start worrying. During day time I forget.
  • I like to be always in company
  • During grief, I cry in my room, but I smile outside
  • I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or I silently bear my sufferings

Usage

  • It can be given to all those who masturbate
  • People around you will become true friends
  • You will be able to discuss everything including your problems, openly with others
  • You won’t pretend neither will you mask your feelings
  • Agrimony can be very helpful in true communication – Beech + Agrimony
  • Teenagers –conflicting thoughts and emotions – Agrimony will be helpful to resolve them.
  • For children who could not express the intimidation they experience in school.
  • For people who lie – along with chestnut bud
  • Agrimony for any physically sensitive pain as suppressed emotional pains are expressed as physical pains
  • Pulling hair, biting nails, grinding teeth, skin rashes – Internal restlessness
  • To keep peace, to avoid conflict, hide inner worry, restlessness
  • Be a peacemaker
  • Positive traits that are developed by Agrimony:  genuine inner joy, true harmony and inner peace
  • To be a skillful diplomat a talented peacemaker, true optimist.
  • Agrimony + Chestnut bud: a person may avoid a situation or may avoid another person for fear of confrontation. Confrontation will disturb him. Any disturbance in the peace will make him avoid a situation or escape from the situation. Chestnut Bud – will avoid a person or a situation.
  • Straight away prescribe in mediation and negotiations – Agrimony + Beech + Chestnut bud
  • For any Skin problem: Agrimony + Crab Apple
  • For Blood Pressure: Agrimony + Willow + Cherry plum                            –
  • Paralysis: Escapism and avoidance are the two remedies have these key words. Paralysis – too much of Anger. Agrimony will have anger inside or sadness inside but smile outside: Agrimony + Willow + Chestnut bud + Cherry plum.
  • By nature I always avoid quarrels, arguments, confrontation: AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER
  • I don’t argue because speaking up will only make things worse: AGRIMONY, WATER VIOLET

The Well-Wisher

The Bach Flower Remedy Willow

Key Words

Resentment, bitterness, ‘because’ is the key word, will not forgive or forget.  Feels victimized blaming others always.

Indications

  • Why should it happen to me?
  • I have not deserved this misfortune.
  • My efforts are not rewarded.
  • Life is unfair.
  • People are utterly ungrateful for the sacrifices I have made.
  • I feel I am neglected, I am bitter about my ….
  • My prayers will never be answered.
  • I feel angry about being cheated by …
  • I feel angry with my father because he didn’t let me choose my clothes
  • I may look better, but I don’t feel better

When you hear all the above statements you can easily find out that it is a willow person.

  • He is always grumbling.
  • He will not forgive or forget anything.
  • Willow person always carries a grudge about a situation or a person for years, never trying to resolve it.
  • The Willow feels he is a victim, i.e. he will not accept responsibility for the situation he is in.
  • The bitterness may develop due to rejection or humiliation.
  • The bitterness may develop after loss.
  • Willow feels resentful towards others or towards life.
  • Wonders why they have been so unfortunate. This is more so if people around him, are successful and fortunate.
  • Willow accepts help from others and takes it for granted.
  • When people think that someone is doing black magic to them.
  • If he is getting old or he couldn’t purchase a house or car, he couldn’t get his promotion, or if he couldn’t do his PhD, he says fate is unfair.

Usage

  • Willow is the essence for conciliation and forgiveness.
  • To forget and forgive pray to Willow.
  • Walnut + Willow + Chicory + Cherry plum + Beech forms the Harmony Pack (a combination for harmony). Minimum of 5 pills in water and sprinkle in the house.  Add Rescue Remedy to it when someone explodes suddenly.
  • Willow + Holly – when someone is doing black magic.
  • Sudden loss of appetite.
WILLOW Why should it happen to me
WILLOW I feel that I am singled out by God to suffer
WILLOW I have not deserved this misfortune
WILLOW Fate has treated me unfairly!  Poor me!
WILLOW I can’t help recalling everyone who had caused me trouble
WILLOW I am angry at others
WILLOW I have aversion to life
WILLOW I start disliking everybody – blaming everybody
WILLOW          – Life is unfair including my parents, relatives
WILLOW, HONEYSUCKLE I am angry at past events

Be Happy Don’t Worry

The Bach Flower Remedy Gentian

Key Words

Trust and faith; message from Gentian, “I trust my inner self”

Expressions

Doubt, depression, discouragement, pessimism, Thinks always negative, sad look always, sorrowful, total dissatisfaction, grudging starting the work, great doubters.

Indications

  • Do you think you have to grasp everything by intellect alone? By rational analysis? You do analysis over and question any time? So that your view is always negative? Is a negative view of an issue is a ‘must’ for you?
  • You expect failure in anything. How badly things are going for me?
  • I don’t feel comfortable unless I have something to worry about.
  • When you have no option, Gorse gives you hope and opens another door.
  • Even I need plenty of positive feedback and encouragement from all dying difficulties.
  • Gentian harbors doubt about healing. He harbors negative thoughts in positive situation.  He is never happy in any situation.
  • Whenever there is failure he blames himself unlucky.
  • When something is not happening according to our choice.
  • Temporary regression that occurs in a project or healing.
  • “No heat sensation” the Gentian Reiki channel would say.  After the treatment, if the patient comes and says “I feel quieter in mind, I wonder it may be wishful thinking.”
  • The Doctor would have cured many, but in my case he may not.
  • Death of a Husband/ Wife, continued unemployment, children of Divorced parents, old people in old age home – all these states require Gentian.
  • For children who have become upset over minor setbacks, and not willing to go back to school – Gentian.
  • Stagnation in anything (when there is no water in the well etc.)
  • Sudden regression of disease.

Usage

  • Gentian will make you know there are solutions for all the problems.
  • Problem is turned into opportunities with Gentian.
  • Gentian + Hornbeam – for stagnation.
  • Gentian + Hornbeam + Wild Rose – for long stagnation of anything.
  • Gentian + Chicory + Mustard – to stop unwanted, unnecessary expenditure (Keep in the hand bag)
GENTIAN Whenever anything goes wrong, I am discouraged and easily upset
GENTIAN I am pessimistic – I always have negative thoughts
GENTIAN I become sad and depressed even for petty reasons
GENTIAN There is always an aura of sadness around me
GENTIAN I am depressed and getting older in mind
GENTIAN I feel I have lost happiness
GENTIAN I feel that nobody is of any use to me
GENTIAN I feel sad that nothing works for me
GENTIAN I am not happy, God wants me to be sad; in sorrow
GENTIAN I am pessimistic – I am easily discouraged and depressed when anything goes wrong
GENTIAN Is your earlier failure the cause of your lack of confidence?
GENTIAN Any failure upsets him very much
MIMULUS, GENTIAN He has become moody and irritable
GENTIAN I expect and anticipate failures only – i.e., I am depressed and discouraged
GENTIAN I now have a feeling that whatever I undertake, will go wrong
GENTIAN I feel that I should not have been born

Story from the past

Mullah cried one day saying that his grandfather died, leaving behind a property worth ten lakhs.

When asked why he is crying, he said that he had lost both his uncles leaving behind some more property worth lakhs of rupees.

When asked why he was still unhappy and crying, he said that there is no one else left in his family to die and leave behind property for him.

That was a Gentian person in action – never happy in life.

The Cleanser

The Bach Flower Remedy Crab Apple

Key words

The cleanser, over-emphasis on trivial details, always thinks about cleanliness, frequent washing of hands

Indications

  • He wants to get rid of anything unclean
  • Obsessive cleanliness, always washing hands
  • Crab Apple thinks and worries about trivialities
  • He always talks about infection
  • Crab Apple opens the mind to initiate change, so that self-acceptance will be there.
  • “Sex is dirty” is the expression of Crab Apple
  • When there is a need to hide the wrong or unclean aspect
  • Always with a mirror, and always concerned about physical looks
  • Self-dislike teenager’s remedy.
  • Others are teasing me for my appearance
  • I am obsessed with hygiene and cleanliness

 

Usage

  • Total mental and physical cleanser
  • Releases shame in sex abuse
  • Keep Crab Apple in the North East corner of the marriage hall
  • To protect one’s energy field – Crab Apple + Walnut
  • After steroid intake, to overcome the hangover, Crab Apple is a must.
  • It is recommended for doctors who work in a hospital.
  • To overcome the side effects of allopathic drugs.
  • Obsessive cleanliness – Crab Apple + White chestnut + Walnut + Pine
  • Remedy for pimples – Crab Apple + Walnut  (mix in Olive oil and massage)
  • Take the remedy thrice a day internally.
  • For all skin diseases, psoriasis for example – Crab Apple is the base remedy
  • Dust allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Yellow Sapphire
  • Food Allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Beech + Holly
  • For dryness or oily skin – Crab Apple (in bath)

The above mentioned remedies are Bach flower remedies, except for Yellow Sapphire, which is a gem remedy. They are available in Homeopathy shops across the world or in the Center.  Gem remedies are available in the centre in the form of pills.

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