The Peacemaker

The Bach Flower Remedy Agrimony

Key words

I want peace of mind; mental torture, worry, concealed from others

Message

• You will get a true friend, if you are true to yourself

Indications

• Cheerful, jovial and humorous in the company but depressed when alone
• By all means, avoids being alone. Adopts peace to be in company of people. Though under tension within.
• Doesn’t like to argue and thus he will avoid an argument and so gives up his viewpoint easily
• Desires harmony and peace
• Hides his worries from others. Will do anything to hide them. So his true feelings are unknown to others.
• Grieves over little things they failed to do, for e.g., as simple as forgetting to call back or post a letter or unsuccessful sexual encounter
• Have big desires but acts as though he has very little desires
• Agrimony is dual in existence – on one side makes attempts to pretend, while on the other side masking his unpleasant side. Good outside, but bad inside, where the bad side may not be known to others.
• Does anything to hide worry – smoking, drinking etc
• Likes to be in the company of others
• Thinks one way, but feels other way
• Likes – live peacefully, please all the people, do a great deal
• Escapes into: Movies, parties or actions of any kind
• Ignore the flaws of partner
• Dislikes:  any dispute or discord
• Agrimony’s avoidance is a type of control over his emotions. More and more a person controls finally he will lose control or he will always have a fear of losing control.

Some of the expressions which point to Agrimony are:

• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or problems  from others putting up a smiling face
• I silently bear my sufferings
• To forget my problems, I work overtime
• My friends think that I am social and extrovert.  But I only know my problems.
• When alone in the night, I start worrying. During day time I forget.
• I like to be always in company
• During grief, I cry in my room, but I smile outside
• I am averse to talk about my problems hence I hide my worries or I silently bear my sufferings

Usage

• It can be given to all those who masturbate
• People around you will become true friends
• You will be able to discuss everything including your problems, openly with others
• You won’t pretend neither will you mask your feelings
• Agrimony can be very helpful in true communication – Beech + Agrimony
• Teenagers –conflicting thoughts and emotions – Agrimony will be helpful to resolve them.
• For children who could not express the intimidation they experience in school.
• For people who lie – along with chestnut bud
• Agrimony for any physically sensitive pain as suppressed emotional pains are expressed as physical pains
• Pulling hair, biting nails, grinding teeth, skin rashes – Internal restlessness
• To keep peace, to avoid conflict, hide inner worry, restlessness
• Be a peacemaker
• Positive traits that are developed by Agrimony:  genuine inner joy, true harmony and inner peace
• To be a skillful diplomat a talented peacemaker, true optimist.
• Agrimony + Chestnut bud: a person may avoid a situation or may avoid another person for fear of confrontation. Confrontation will disturb him. Any disturbance in the peace will make him avoid a situation or escape from the situation. Chestnut Bud – will avoid a person or a situation.
• Straight away prescribe in mediation and negotiations – Agrimony + Beech + Chestnut bud
• For any Skin problem: Agrimony + Crab Apple
• For Blood Pressure: Agrimony + Willow + Cherry plum                            –
• Paralysis: Escapism and avoidance are the two remedies have these key words. Paralysis – too much of Anger. Agrimony will have anger inside or sadness inside but smile outside: Agrimony + Willow + Chestnut bud + Cherry plum.
• By nature I always avoid quarrels, arguments, confrontation: AGRIMONY, ROCK WATER
• I don’t argue because speaking up will only make things worse: AGRIMONY, WATER VIOLET

The Well-Wisher

The Bach Flower Remedy Willow

Key Words

Resentment, bitterness, ‘because’ is the key word, will not forgive or forget.  Feels victimized blaming others always.

Indications

• Why should it happen to me?
• I have not deserved this misfortune.
• My efforts are not rewarded.
• Life is unfair.
• People are utterly ungrateful for the sacrifices I have made.
• I feel I am neglected, I am bitter about my ….
• My prayers will never be answered.
• I feel angry about being cheated by …
• I feel angry with my father because he didn’t let me choose my clothes
• I may look better, but I don’t feel better

When you hear all the above statements you can easily find out that it is a willow person.

• He is always grumbling.
• He will not forgive or forget anything.
• Willow person always carries a grudge about a situation or a person for years, never trying to resolve it.
• The Willow feels he is a victim, i.e. he will not accept responsibility for the situation he is in.
• The bitterness may develop due to rejection or humiliation.
• The bitterness may develop after loss.
• Willow feels resentful towards others or towards life.
• Wonders why they have been so unfortunate. This is more so if people around him, are successful and fortunate.
• Willow accepts help from others and takes it for granted.
• When people think that someone is doing black magic to them.
• If he is getting old or he couldn’t purchase a house or car, he couldn’t get his promotion, or if he couldn’t do his PhD, he says fate is unfair.

Usage

• Willow is the essence for conciliation and forgiveness.
• To forget and forgive pray to Willow.
• Walnut + Willow + Chicory + Cherry plum + Beech forms the Harmony Pack (a combination for harmony). Minimum of 5 pills in water and sprinkle in the house.  Add Rescue Remedy to it when someone explodes suddenly.
• Willow + Holly – when someone is doing black magic.
• Sudden loss of appetite.

WILLOW	Why should it happen to me
WILLOW	I feel that I am singled out by God to suffer
WILLOW	I have not deserved this misfortune
WILLOW	Fate has treated me unfairly!  Poor me!
WILLOW	I can’t help recalling everyone who had caused me trouble
WILLOW	I am angry at others
WILLOW	I have aversion to life
WILLOW	I start disliking everybody – blaming everybody
WILLOW          –	Life is unfair including my parents, relatives
WILLOW, HONEYSUCKLE	I am angry at past events

The Cleanser

The Bach Flower Remedy Crab Apple

Key words

The cleanser, over-emphasis on trivial details, always thinks about cleanliness, frequent washing of hands

Indications

• He wants to get rid of anything unclean
• Obsessive cleanliness, always washing hands
• Crab Apple thinks and worries about trivialities
• He always talks about infection
• Crab Apple opens the mind to initiate change, so that self-acceptance will be there.
• “Sex is dirty” is the expression of Crab Apple
• When there is a need to hide the wrong or unclean aspect
• Always with a mirror, and always concerned about physical looks
• Self-dislike teenager’s remedy.
• Others are teasing me for my appearance
• I am obsessed with hygiene and cleanliness

 

Usage

• Total mental and physical cleanser
• Releases shame in sex abuse
• Keep Crab Apple in the North East corner of the marriage hall
• To protect one’s energy field – Crab Apple + Walnut
• After steroid intake, to overcome the hangover, Crab Apple is a must.
• It is recommended for doctors who work in a hospital.
• To overcome the side effects of allopathic drugs.
• Obsessive cleanliness – Crab Apple + White chestnut + Walnut + Pine
• Remedy for pimples – Crab Apple + Walnut  (mix in Olive oil and massage)
• Take the remedy thrice a day internally.
• For all skin diseases, psoriasis for example – Crab Apple is the base remedy
• Dust allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Yellow Sapphire
• Food Allergy – Crab Apple + Walnut + Beech + Holly
• For dryness or oily skin – Crab Apple (in bath)

The above mentioned remedies are Bach flower remedies, except for Yellow Sapphire, which is a gem remedy. They are available in Homeopathy shops across the world or in the Center.  Gem remedies are available in the centre in the form of pills.